I am burned by the stupid.
Yesterday I moved my main toon on WoW from the small friends/family guild that I’d had her in, to a larger casual raiding guild. I did this because I was having personality conflicts with the guildmaster and I was finding myself switching to alts or even logging off to avoid having to deal with someone who is, well, cranky a lot. I wanted to keep this low drama, so once my transfer came through I sent out a note to the guild email list that said essentially “My main has moved to this new guild, but my alts are staying here and I’ll continue to run dungeons with everyone on my main and put good stuff into the guild bank and just generally be the same supportive person I’ve always been.” No drama, no finger-pointing, no flouncing.
This evening I logged into one of my alts that had some goodies to put in the guild bank, only to discover that all of my bank access, every single bit of it, had been yanked. Now, I expected to have my access lowered. That only makes sense since I have only alts there and not my main. But to find that all access had been pulled, even my ability to deposit stuff, was really surprising. Although I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised, knowing who did it. I just find it incredibly childish, though. I understand being annoyed and maybe a little hurt that I moved my main toon somewhere else, but to stop speaking to me and do silly things like yank my bank access? I dunno. It just didn’t occur to me that that would happen.
Mind you, I farmed my ass off to donate upwards of 5350 gold for buying bank tabs, and I make an effort to keep the bank stocked with certain exotic items and meats for cooking and such. It’s not like I didn’t have a history of being responsible with it. And that’s really not the point anyway, because I didn’t expect to keep my uber-access with the ability to take anything and everything out. I just expected to be dropped down to normal alt access, which is the ability to put things in and to get certain lower value materials out and the big stuff is unavailable.
I’m peeved, and I’m writing this out partially to process it so I don’t do anything stupid. I almost sent a snarky email to the guild list about how I can’t deposit good items if I can’t even see the frickin’ bank tabs, but I stopped myself. A mutual friend pointed out that everyone is a little hurt about it, and that maybe I should have given a little warning before going. And he’s right, on both counts. I should have given a warning, but I just didn’t think it would be that huge of a deal. So that’s my bad.
Anyway, I decided I would just use the in-game mail to send the bank items I had to the GM so he could deposit them for me. Just because he’s being a wank doesn’t mean I don’t intend to continue supporting the guild just as I said I would. I don’t want drama. I don’t have time for drama. I have no inclination for drama. I just wanted to get away from the person who was causing me to enjoy the game less without burning bridges or being an asshole about it.
Two of my friends who read here (hi there!) will probably come over with their mains to the new guild as well. I did NOT ask them to come. They both were thinking about leaving before I made this move, and since we all know each other real time it makes sense for them to come where my main is. But of course I’ll get tarnished as stealing people from the old guild.
People make me tired, sometimes.
But, see? I had some drama and I got this journal entry out of it. I’m right, aren’t I? Macaroni makes for good journals.